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There are boundaries that often times many cross without even knowing they are crossing them. The more self aware others become with what these boundaries are the less likely it happens. I often see the lines crossed with loved ones specifically significant others, family and friends. They think they know what's best for their loved one and jump the gun when it comes to decision making for them. It is the individual's choice to decide what path they choose to take. They think just because it comes from a place of love they can take it upon themselves to choose for them. One can't assume they know someone good enough to make that decision on behalf of them. The loved one thinks they are protecting them when they don't let the individual make their own decisions. We all have a responsibility to set those boundaries for our loved ones to know what lines shouldn't be cross. I strongly encourage you to stand up for yourself and be an advocate for your boundaries.
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