furry furs

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This rainy weather gots me thinking about furs. California why do you tease me with the cold?!? Come tomorrow it'll probably be sunny and all my hopes and dreams of being in furs will be down the drain.

I finally cleaned out my closet! Absolutely everything in my wardrobe will be worn at some point. I have tossed out all the pieces that no longer fit and have given them to a home where new adventures will be made in them. FAREWELL ill fitting clothes you won't be able to mock my body! I can go to my closet and throw on anything without feeling the guilt that a piece may not fit right. Now the dilemma is what do I even wear?!

the waistcoat

(waistcoat & blouse NORDSTROM RACK, jeans THE LOFT, boots TOPSHOP) 

I get into moods where I like to dress in monochromatic colors hence the all grey tones with this outfit. I went for longer lengths with this denim waistcoat & blouse and styled it with the same THE LOFT jeans I've been wearing on repeat. 

It's hard to have faith in ourselves when things aren't going the way we had planned. We may wake up in the morning feeling like a complete train wreck and not knowing how to deal with everything that is going on in our lives. But the thing we forget is we don't have to stay in that funk. We have choices! We can choose to stay in a dark place or choose to see the light at the end of tunnel. I'm not saying it's easy to have a positive mindset when things go to shit but it's better to try then to sink and stink in a pile.

Here are 5 things that you can do instead of sink and stink into a pile of shit!

1. KNOW YOUR STRENGTH, CELEBRATE IT

2. CALL A FRIEND FOR SUPPORT, STRENGTH IN NUMBERS

3. EAT HEALTHY, YOU EAT LIKE SHIT YOU FEEL LIKE SHIT

4. PRAYER, PRAY TO GOD OR WHOEVER YOU BELIVE IN PUT YOUR TROUBLES OUT INTO THE UNIVERSE

5. EXERCISE, RELEASE THOSE ENDORPHINS  

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the tunic top

(tunic top VINTAGE, jeans THE LOFT, boots TBA via SOLESTRUCK)

Tunic tops, the longer length blouse but too short to be a dress dilemma. I solve the peeping booty problem by throwing on a pair of jeans. Other options are a pair of cute shorts that can be hidden so the tunic isn't so scandalous or trousers for a more dressed up look. This top is perfect for a more casual interview which I've worn on occasion but I'd opt for a skirt with knee highs instead of the jeans for a more put together vibe.

I'm still in the process of spring cleaning my closet. I am editing very meticulously, taking out pieces that no longer speak Jobabyy vibes and that are worn out over time. I had a discussion with a friend this past weekend about investment pieces and thrift store shopping particularly on what to spend and what to splurge your money's worth. I usually spend more money on staples that won't go out of style in my book such as leather goods (jackets, purses and shoes). I am constantly revamping my closet because I am literally spending 2 to 3 dollars on thrift store/ vintage pieces therefore I don't feel the guilt when getting rid of an item because of how much it cost. I also am donating these items to be worn again or selling them at a buy, sell, trade type of store which also recycles the clothing all very good for the environment and my bank account!

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spring vibes

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I am loving all things soft and neutral this spring season. The pink and cream palettes give off such a romantic vibe.  Ruffles, lace and eye-lit accents combined with softer fabrics are something I am also digging. Super daydreaming about frolicking in cute outfits that must magically come together in my wardrobe.

actually doing the things

(top KENNETH COLE REACTION,  jeans THE LOFT, sneakers ADIDAS)

"ACTUALLY DOING THE THINGS" Are we actually doing the things we say we are going to do or just putting them off and finding the next best excuse? I am guilty of this meaning not actually doing what I said I would set out to put into action. I would try to justify why I shouldn't do something or why a project wouldn't be able to be executed. When in fact all of these excuses were based off of fear. The fear of putting something out into the universe that would be a complete failure. I fear that the idea was stupid to begin with and that others would negatively judge my decision or work. I started this blog in hopes to keep building my confidence of expressing myself on many different levels. One of them being the way I choose to dress myself. I not only want to build confidence in myself but instill it in others that they too can choose to dress freely by being fearless with their wardrobe choices. We can Choose to be fearless in everything we do and actually do the things we want in life. I choose to post what I am learning through my experiences instead of keeping it to myself because I really do hope it can be helpful to whoever may be reading. I believe knowing that someone out there is going through similar hardships or doubts within themselves lets us know we are not alone. That is why I share my stories to let others know they are never alone no matter how abandoned you may feel. We all have insecurities but the ultimate challenge is to step out of our comfort zone AND DO IT because you rather Be "ACTUALLY DOING THE THINGS"!!!

xoxo JOBABYY

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the handkerchief blouse

(top VINTAGE, jeans THE LOFT, boots MICHAEL KORS)

There are boundaries that often times many cross without even knowing they are crossing them. The more self aware others become with what these boundaries are the less likely it happens. I often see the lines crossed with loved ones specifically significant others, family and friends. They think they know what's best for their loved one and jump the gun when it comes to decision making for them. It is the individual's choice to decide what path they choose to take. They think just because it comes from a place of love they can take it upon themselves to choose for them. One can't assume they know someone good enough to make that decision on behalf of them. The loved one thinks they are protecting them when they don't let the individual make their own decisions. We all have a responsibility to set those boundaries for our loved ones to know what lines shouldn't be cross. I strongly encourage you to stand up for yourself and be an advocate for your boundaries.

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the iridescent jacket

(jacket VINTAGE, top MARSHALLS, jeans ZARA, sandals BIRKENSTOCK)

I found this amazing gauze jacket at a thrift store and immediately fell in love with its details. It's the perfect lightweight jacket for this spring season. The iridescent color wave is beautful and the mock hood makes for fun styling. It may not seem like it but I am in a wardrobe rut. I'm having trouble feeling inspired to get dressed when I want to get rid of half of everything in my closet. I'm in dire need of spring cleaning and revamping my style. I've had certain pieces that are completely worn out meaning I have worn them over and over and it's time to retire them and donate. Editing is such a mission for me and I can't wait for Jobabyy to get her groove back and have a new edited wardrobe!

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